Southern moms are full of life lessons. No one else can teach you to mind your manners like she can. But as grateful as we are to receive her wisdom in navigating the world, it’s the special moments with Mom that we really treasure. Here are six experiences every Southern girl should have with her Mom before she’s grown up. You can also use this list to make lasting memories with a goddaughter, niece, or grandchild.
Learning The Family Recipes
Most Moms have a vault of family recipes that have been passed down through the generations. Often these recipes aren’t written down, but learned hands-on in the kitchen. Others are scribbled on index cards with few details and little explanation. Make some memories together by cooking the family biscuit, birthday cake, or gumbo recipe until she’s got it down pat.
Dressing Up For An Outing
Every Southern girl loves to dress up for an outing with Mama at least once a year. Maybe it’s for afternoon tea or dinner at a fancy restaurant. Maybe it’s to attend a Broadway show or a performance by the local symphony orchestra. Find a tradition that works for all and put on your best outfits.
Planting A Garden
Some mothers are experts at planting okra and peas. Others have a favorite flower or like to fuss over roses. There’s something special about putting your hands in the dirt with Mama and watching things grow.
Taking A Mother-Daughter Trip
Make lasting memories by hitting the road for a mother-daughter trip. It could be as simple as a weekend drive to Grandma’s or as extravagant as a trip to the beach or the mountains. Wherever you go, this time away provides a chance to bond like no other.
Flipping Through Family Photo Albums
Family stories fade away quickly unless they are passed down to the next generation. Make sure that happens by setting aside an evening to flip through photo albums or old slide carousels. Mom can identify faces, answer questions, and share all the family lore.
Making Holiday Traditions
Whether it’s decorating the house for the season, exchanging Valentine’s, setting a holiday table, carving pumpkins, baking for a potluck, or planning a holiday movie night, every Southern girl should have at least one holiday tradition with Mom. After she grows up, these mother-daughter traditions can continue year after year.
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